Hi everyone Alan here, I am 24 years old and recently single.

Basically I will summarize my situation so maybe I could be given some guidance on where I should start.

I literally have no game, I don't approach women, I have been in a relationship since I was 17 so I never had the opportunity to really learn, so this is my chance and I'm really grateful to be apart of this community.

At the moment I am finding it hard to approach women, issues on not really knowing what to say, I even had a woman approach me last night (Boxing Day) in a night club, she touched me up, I didn't know what to say to her so said nothing she called me a snob turned her back and about a minute later she tried again.

Anyway my first goal here is to get over that hurdle of approaching, I really enjoy female company, its just initiating conversation with women I don't know, is the problem.

Cheers.

Hey man! Welcome to the forum!

The problem that you have is that you lack self confidence. You really do need to learn to love yourself and learn that there is no real reason as to why you are unable to converse with women!

I would recommend just trying to put yourself out there as often as you can. Here is a good little article that I think could provide you with a good frame work for improving yourself to the next level!

http://www.attractionboss.com/anxiety-a ... provement/


Enjoy and good luck!

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hey bro there are lots of things you can do but i would recommend just going out and approach women with no intention of sleeping with them, just get a bunch of approaches under your belt - then work up from there. it shouldnt take you that long to get good at approaching when you do it right

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Hey man I'm sorry about your breakup. It doesn't really matter what you say; what matters more is your frame. I won't try to explain it in case you already know what it is, but if you don't, you should start learning about it immediately. Also, watch Tyler Durden's video called: Tyler's Five Secrets For Talking Forever-Never Run Out of Things to Say Again This guy is a boss; he has a ton of fantastic videos.

Hey, Welcome to the community. You should find everything you need here.

Develop a natural framework then fill it in with stuff you find on here. There are many posts on natural game in the Natural game section.

Here is a basic framework:

Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

Then go on here and look over advice on texting and pick what you find the most fun to test out. Employ your texting game (or phone conversation game if you want to do that) and set up the date ASAP

Look for advice on dates (pick the thing you like best)

Look for advice on how to get a kiss

Look for advice on how to get a woman isolated in a place you can have sex.

Look for advice on how to prevent and overcome LMR

Look for advice on how to manage having an abundance of women in your life/managing a one woman relationship.

Answers to each piece of that puzzle can be found here for free.

A more advanced but still basic framework

pre approach - Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

I suggest after you develop your own personal system (which can include nlp/hypnosis if you want) that you practice practice practice, then look for better skills to fill each section.

If you choose to do this can you do me a favor? I want to see what you create. PM me your completed framework (i don't care how long the PM is tell the whole story). I'll look over it and clean it up and streamline it for you.

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