Hello,

So I was first introduced to this scene by a male friend and now have several PUA friends. I was searching for FPUA and stumbled across this site and a post in which it is mentioned that FPUAs all have AIDS! ...well I don't know about THAT... but my stance on the situation is that as long as you are respectful of other people's feelings we all as human beings have a right to 'pick up' what we want out of life.

I guess why I am here is to find like minded females that want to go out in London and find good guys. I am struggling to find the female variety in terms of actual people , I have read Arden Leigh's book and blog as well as Christian Carter's Catch Him And Keep Him but FPUA still seems to be quite a scarce thing with lots of now unavailable blogs, why is this? Anyway it would be amazing to meet up with some females in the flesh to take action, I surely cannot be the only one?

Saffron x

Hey Ashley,

Welcome!

It's cool when girls decide to get into self-improvement!

I hope to meet a girl like you someday in person.

Anyway, don't be afraid to hit on guys, we love getting hit on by a random women.

Most of them will be very receptive as it will make their day and improve their confidence, especially if you're a woman who is in good shape or looks good.

Good luck with your adventure.

Let me know if you have any questions or need anything.

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Thanks!

Well I am not sure about the direct approach I personally feel like its not really me and devalues me a bit. Gotta be careful not to be just another disposable girl!

Saying that I am not very good at approaching attractive guys anyway, I always get a little voice that says 'don't be so stupid!' hence why I am here, I actually find it very difficult to show interest in fear or being rejected or worst still being hit and then quit.

So I know a lot of you guys are like oh dear not a girl but we need help too, so any other girls or guys that can point me in the right direction I would really appreciate it x

Yeah it's funny to me the paradox of male/female dynamics.

Most guys are absolutely terrified to even go have a casual conversation with a girl they think is attractive.

I've been there and it can feel so intimidating, like the girl has supreme confidence and a shit load of experience.

However, after doing this for awhile, it's actually the complete opposite, I've met very few girls who are as confident as they look on the outside, most are insecure about many things in their life and especially their bodies.

I know it's scary to go approach guys and they should be approaching you anyway, but if you see one who you like, go approach him casually, trust me, they are as terrified as you as you are of them, especially if you're what they consider "highly attractive".

What kind of guy/s are you into and what are you looking for relationship wise?

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My goal is to find a mutually for-filling, respectful relationship with a man I find sexually attractive. I am scared that if I make the first move I will make myself less valuable and intriguing and appear more easy causing disinterest.

Men will fuck hot girls and not so hot girls its the emotional trigger I need to learn about setting off as well as the physical x

Hey welcome hope to see you in the chat sometime!

If you hang out in the chat you'll eventually get to talk to Angelgal. She's one of our chat moderators and I guess you could call her an FPUA as well!

haha i have no idea what that whole AIDS thing was about...

welcome to the community!

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Thanks guys for the warm welcome I will keep an eye out for Angel Gal thanks! x