Hi guys,
i'm 21 years old, from Chile, so, sorry for my english (but at least i'm trying =D).
First of all, it's a pleasure to meet you, i'm new here with the willingness to learn PUA, and i entered in to this community be cause always that i start a conversation with a girl (i don't have problem with that), i bore her, but not with everyone, just the one that i find attractive, i have no problem talking to a girl that i'm not interested in, in fact, that same thing made me conform with her, and not with the one that i really liked, that's why i've been in a relationship 3 times and sleep with another 8 (including them), by the way, the last relationship i've been, i didn't do anything when we met, i was talking to her in a VERY non sexual way, and in the end of it, SHE asked my number, well, i asked after she did be cause i knew she won't call my or anything(she was bold, but no that much). So that's it, i'm confident with my self, but not that much .
That's me, i hope i didn't bore you with the details, i'm open to everything that you sugest, actually i'm reading the game by neil straus that i read somewhere it's a good book to start with, and if you guys could tell my any source of knowladge that could help me to improve "my game" (hahaha ok no) i'd love you so much for that.
btw my name is José, and i'm studying.

Que Pasa Weon!!! Puta la wea.
haha ...
i dated this Chilean chick a couple years ago and ever since, I would love to meet another chilean as awesome as the one i dated..
Well since you already have confidence in talking to chicks , you only need more reference experience meaning that you need to start approaching every single girl that you find attractive. I know, i know, at first is gonna be challenging but when you start doing so you brain stops being so needy, shy, anxious and starts to to become more comfortable when talking to chicks of high caliber.

Go to youtube and watch Richard La Ruina: Stealth attraction or Method for Club game and that informations its so useful in order to sexually scalate to a kiss, or more. depending on the situation.

Bakan!!!!

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thanks for the usefull videos, but actually, i've already watch them all, are awesome, richard explain very well some usefull non-verbal comunication and how to use them into the game. I actually have been applying them and works very well, it's awesome the non-verbal thing!

pd: Bakan weon!

You may be coming across as nervous. But mostly, you need to have that spark of energy when talking with a girl. An attitude that you are just out for a fun freewheeling chat with her to see where it goes and to see if she is cool enough to chill with you.
That's for the same reason you have no problem talking to grandmothers, or the guy sweeping the sidewalk. There is nothing for you to lose so you don't get nervous.

The recommendation by the poster above to talk to a lot of girls is a great one because it will help you to realize that there is an abundance of women and it's really no big deal at all to talk to them etc.

thanks! i already started to talking to a lot of women to kill the aproach anxiety, thanks for the advice!

Eso me pasaba mucho al principio cuando empesaba a cojerme minas. Lo que me ayudo mucho fue hablar con ellas con la mente pensando que ella no te gusta. No le demuestres que estas nerviuso con ella porque se la juelen al momento.

Tambien demostrales a ella que tenes intenciones sexuales desde el principio.

Great news. It's the best thing you could do for yourself to force yourself to approach.

Before long you will probably find that the nervousness has vanished. Approach anxiety will always be there probably, at the start of each day, but you'll train yourself to push through it. Keep it up.

thanks!!

don't entertain the woman, entertain yourself, if she laughs too. Then you have something in common.

Next time you are talking to a woman and she seems bored.Take a risk. Say: "Excuse me, this conversation is boring" and walk away. lol

hahaha nice one, is like "if you don't take risks, you won't win anything"

Yea,

Key is to approach, and keep on approaching until you're not scared of them anymore. Fear is hard to get over, but its also the most gratifying once you do.

Hope this helps.