I am an introvert. I am also extremely cold, I don't understand most people because most people are “emotional”. I don't understand feelings, or how to act “accordingly” in social situation. Needless to say I have never been in a relationship. I just can't understand human behavior which I perceive as illogical... I think like a computer, in binary terms, which is not how social interactions work. I over think a lot, in almost every situation and I am extremely paranoid. Everyone says I am extremely intelligent and cultivated and that someday I will be “someone”. Every time I have “loved” someone (which is seldom), she didn't love me back and I was hurt. This is because I am different, my approach wasn't “romantic”. Physically I am normal, I go to the gym 3 times per week and I dress normally, I take good care of my hygiene, shower everyday, wear deodorant etc...
I am pretty sure I am going to die a virgin... Any advice?

Hello,

I would say, to accept that inner nature inside of you and put it to best use. I think that it also is a good source of humour when you are very insensitive. Or perhaps find out what makes you soft inside and how you can implement that in your game.

just some tips.

Yeah, I wish they had more PUA advice for introverts that you didn't have to spend $37 a month for.

I'm a mix of an introvert and an extrovert. I like to socialize, but I do not like noisy, crowded places. I do not drink either.

I'd say focus on day game. I may start an introvert thread to see what advice pops up.

Oh, and you don't love someone if you haven't made any moves. It's called Oneitisitis, also known as a crush, you know, the things little kids and teenagers get? Yeah, Adults (PUA's and AFC's) get them too. Big woop, I know.

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"Introvert" is often a label used as a euphemism for shy and anxious. Going out a lot so that being around lots of people and socializing becomes normal to you makes you so used to it that you crave socializing and meeting new people just because it has become fun for you. You CAN rewire your brain, and though it sounds impossible and even undesirable, trust me, the change is a wholly positive on, and you will think and feel better of yourself and have more fun with life if you go through this process. Here's how you can tell: Ever hear and extrovert wish how they weren't? I think that is the natural state of our species and that negative life experience leads some of us (like myself, who spent years alone thinking he was an "introvert") to not be as confident and as engaging as we naturally would be. "Introvert" and "Extrovert" are learned patterns of feelings and behaviors, so I think is does a huge injustice to talk as if it is someone's nature. It's simply how you learned to be. Some people speak French, but it's not because being a francophone is part of their genetic make-up.

A lot of guys think very binary; The thing is, you can use that to your advantage if you start seeing the world of pickup as a personal challenge to be overcome.

"Play the part" until you are the part. Since women are into guys who aren't afraid to speak their mind and to go after what they want, it might not be a bad idea to start taking small steps to open girls, with no investment and no expectation; just see where the convo leads.