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 Post subject: And so it begins
PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 12:23 am 
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Hello there. Im a greek guy turning 18 this December. Now before you even start saying things like "You are way to young. You will give up" etc let me tell you Im very determined to become a PUA and this is why:

1. I just finished high school. Started university 2 weeks ago.
2. I am very tall(1.96 m) and kind of skinny(75 kg)
3. I am a virgin (not rare but gets worse)
4. I got friends that lost their virginity when they were 15 and have been with 10 girls already.(gets worse though)
5. I have never had a girlfriend(still gets worse damn it)
6. I have never really french kissed a girl unless you count that one time when i was 6(Gooood the truth hurts)
7. I have tryed to get somewhere with 3(count them) 3 GIRLS.All of which I waited to long to make a move and ultimately said they only thought of me as a friend.

I dont have trouble talking to girls and I am in no way an introvert. I am just never able of going further, I dont feel confident but awkward and I always feel like those around me arent interested in me or my opinion. Since I started uni Ive been doing all I can to get some results but there is always someone that just outshines me.
I first learned about our community by randomly watching some videos on YT by Justin Wayne, he is using a method called the Domino Effect.

Sidenote:I would like you to give me the meaning ofbsome the things you guys say(HB,kino etc). Something like a glossary.

Im ready to devour any knowledge you give, just one quick note. Im going abroad(Lithuania) on November 7, Im going to be in a small village with 25 people from 4 countries for 10 days. With that in mind, please try to help me as fast as human possible because this is a chance I CANT miss AGAIN. Already screwed things up 3 months ago in a similar occasion in Spain.

Thank you for your time and sorry for the long message.

Ps I read about some methods like Mystery,RSD,Stealth etc. Where can I find these?


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 Post subject: Re: And so it begins
PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 6:00 am 
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7. I have tryed to get somewhere with 3(count them) 3 GIRLS.All of which I waited to long to make a move and ultimately said they only thought of me as a friend.
There you have it. Sometimes it's the simple solution: Try to get somewhere with more than 3 girls.

You stated your lack of sexual experience. The reason why is very, very simple, and here it is:
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7. I have tryed to get somewhere with 3(count them) 3 GIRLS.All of which I waited to long to make a move and ultimately said they only thought of me as a friend.
When you make an effort, you will see results. Adjust based on the results you are getting.

Keep at it and don't quit the game in the face of approach anxiety or rejections.


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 Post subject: Re: And so it begins
PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 8:27 am 
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Hello there! First, congratulations. Taking the step you just took is the most important thing. Sounds like you realise you want to have the control on your sexual life. Good things for you: your are very young; you say you are not introvert; you hate the fact you are virgin, etc. and now you want to change that. This is good.

The first problem I would highlight is when you say "I dont feel confident but awkward and I always feel like those around me aren't interested in me or my opinion. Since I started uni Ive been doing all I can to get some results but there is always someone that just outshines me".

Well, let me tell you something: the first thing you gotta do is feel confident about yourself. Work on you. What is your passion? Guitar? Sport? Whatever it is, exploit that. Be better on that. That will give you the confidence you need. Second, people receives sooner and stronger what you say with your body than what you say with your words, so if your not feeling confident about you, people will notice that. Mystery said this and it really worked for me: "If you dress and act like a rockstar, they will treat you like one".

About the 3 girls, like oceanx says, you gotta hit more and more girls. Know or be concious that if you are socializing with a lot of girls, there will be a lot of them who will dump you. Don't give a shit about it. It's ok. Whenever a girl rejects you, she is NOT rejecting you as a person. If she rejects you, her loss.

About the outshinning thing: know this: there will ALWAYS be someone who will outshine you. Do NOT feel bad about it; this is good news. Learn from that guy. What does he do? How does he dress? Remember that even LeBron James was once outshined by Kobe Bryant.

Finally, sounds like you are a little bit desperate to get girls. Don't misinterpret me. I'm just saying that looks like you have a lot of fire inside you and you really wanna get girls, wich is normal. But don't base your success on how many girls you fuck. If you do that, you are already giving them the power; you are throwing away your tools and your weapons. Remember that this is a GAME. Have fun during the whole process and if she rejects the interaction, go away with a big fucking smile, knowing that your are on your way to have control on your sexual life. Remember what I am going to tell you: someday, not far from today, many girls will be a part of your sexual life that you will have to organise your schedule to fuck them all.

These are just a few lines about PUA. I strongly recommend you to start learning from Mystery and Style.

Good luck and HAVE FUN my friend!


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 Post subject: Re: And so it begins
PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 10:53 pm 
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Thanks to both of you for replying and giving me these advice. I assure you I won't give up easily nor will I be devestated every time I will be rejected. Done that to much already. Time to move on. How can I study the methods you talk about(Mystery,Style etc)? Personaly I dobt even know if Im a day or night gamer, so I need the most basic stuff right now.


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 Post subject: Re: And so it begins
PostPosted: Tue Oct 28, 2014 8:57 am 
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Hey there! I'd start by reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss (Style). It is as good book for a beginner. I started like that. Besides, in YouTube you have a lot of videos about them and related people. Just read a lot and watch a lot of videos... and practice. I play in the night but I am more a day gamer; but it is basically the same, although the girl's conditions might be a little bit different (set number, predisposition...)

Good luck!


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