Hey there community,
First the mundane stuff- 18, bulgarian, no f*cking experience with women, have not even kissed a girl. Exactly the last fact frustrates me the most. I am avarage looking guy, 185 cm tall, nice body since i work out regulary, but still have abnormal fear of interaction. I guess my biggest problem is the moment when i feel i could close and fuck up. Seriously the moment i catch some sign of interest i just lose it, become awkward, overthink and eventually avoid interaction with the girl. Up until that moment i manage to keep the conversation going, make her laugh and shit. Once the target was ready to kiss me but i just thought what if it becomes awkward and what if she thinks im a pervert or something, or what if... And the next day i am like "f*ck, i could do it" but its too late. However, i am glad i found out about the community, and hope i could one day call myself pua. thank you for the time!

Hello and welcome to the PUA Forums.

It sounds like you have a couple big fears here. Social Anxiety is real.

I always advise the same thing. Start out small. Make eye contact with everyone. Strong eye contact, even if it makes you anxious. Practice this until you are comfortable, or for a week.

Then start small talk with every guy you meet who is working. At stores, diners and when out Gaming. Get used to social interaction with men.

Then more onto small talk with women working. Nothing serious, just normal boring stuff.

Then move into more personal conversation, and Gaming women who are working. They are paid to be nice to you and you have less pressure of closing.

Then move onto random guys infield. Befriend them and be social.

Then, move onto random women, who you are not Attracted to. Game like normal.

Finally, when you are comfortable with the previous steps, move onto women in field who you are interested in. Once you get over the fear of social interaction, you move onto fear of escalation.

How to do this? Have balls. The second you feel like you should, do it without thinking. You lose the girl either way.

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