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Success stories?
I have a girlfriend who is madly in love with me.
The truth? To get what you want you need to put the work in, my friend.
You need to approach a lot of women, get the skills to Attract any woman, date many to find out what you like, then pick one from the many you have Attracted. This is how you are happy with a GF.
If you do not, you settle with someone you may or may not be right for.
I wish you the best of luck. It is a LONG road ahead of you. To find the person worth you agreeing to be in a closed relationship with is hard, but worth the work.
Hey! Thanks for the response. Yeah that's definitely what I'm looking to do though. Like I don't want the first girl that's willing to date me though. I like what you said about building up the skills to attract any woman, then choosing the right one from the whole group and that's exactly how I want to go about this.
Basically, my current situation is I have a personal rule that I have to make the best effort I can to go out on a date that has at least some potential of something, at least once a month. I know that's a lot lower frequency than what I should be doing, but that's just been my standard since I was about 20 (I'm 24 now). The thing is, these dates have never lead to a second date, and I feel like every time I ask a girl out, it's me trying to persuade that it would be a good idea, rather than actually making her attracted to me. That last part is what I am focused on changing right now.
Again thanks for heads up!
-ZZ