Greetings community, glad to meet you all

I’m a 22 year old guy looking to improve his luck with the ladies. Same way most of us started, I suppose. Found this place after reading The Game by Neil Strauss just recently. I’m from the Netherlands, and I’ve come here to ask for advice on game in general and to find people with whom, in the future, I can go out sarging. I said “in the future” on purpose because I’d like to grow more acquaintance with the game before I actually demonstrate in front of other PUA’s. It’s one thing to crash & burn in the field, and it happens to the best of us, but I’d rather not do so in the face of other PUA’s.

Right, so some other relevant information to the pickup game. This is a list that I think gives a pretty clear view of my selling points and the things that, frankly, keep me from getting laid. I hope that, viewing this list, more experienced PUA’s can already give me some advice on certain things.

My selling points:

- I’m quite spontaneous

- I have a sense of humor

- I am, in general, reasonably comfortable around girls as long as I’m not trying to seduce them

- People tell me I have a certain kind of charm that I think I can easily use to my advantage

- I have cute curls. Nice and soft. Girls like touching them and commenting on how soft they are

- I speak English fluently as a second language. Pretty sure I can use this as a DHV

Sticking Points:

- Recognizing IOI’s

- Confidently flirting. As I said earlier, I’m reasonably comfortable around women, I can approach them and make small talk, I have some lady friends and can make most girls laugh with my jokes. What I lack however is both the confidence and the technique to steer jokes and small talk towards success.

- Asperger Syndrome. I’ve come to the point where I can be around people for a prolonged amount of time without them noticing unless they have a keen eye for it. However, most interaction skills that the majority of people know by nature are things I have to learn through experience, trial & error and observing. Reading emotions will always be harder for me than for most people. Worse, knowing this of myself often causes me to overanalyze things.

That’s about it. I’m looking forward to sharing my progress from AFC to, hopefully, a successful PUA.

Cheers

Bluefinger

You have a keen eye for advantages and disadvantages. This is how you will get good my friend. Go out and keep a super detailed journal, which I know you can do. If you mess up, put no emotion to it, just write down how you messed up and work on fixing the mistake. If you do well, put a LOT of emotion to it and be proud, this is not easy.

If you are good with girls in general, I would suggest you start trying to escalate conversationally in a casual way. Bring up sex and talk about it. Be open with her. You would be surprised how talking about sexual things will leverage things into the sexual realm. Getting comfortable with the subject matter will help you immensely.

Need any other help or advice? I lot of members here are great at Game and have free blogs. Poke around, a lot of cutting edge stuff is out here for free.

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