Hey.

I posted here a few years ago, but things haven't gotten much better for me since then. I think it's time that I ask for some help so here I am.

First I've got some self image issues and that causes a lot of my problems.
I have a lot of trouble controlling the frame and that kills me everytime, even at work.

I'm not bad at building attraction once I can get past my sticking points, but I'd like to be better.

If anyone has some time to recommend some material or offer any help I'd be pretty happy.

Self Image issues? Psycho Cybernetics is a GREAT BOOK. Non - PUA but the best book in my opinion for Inner Game.

Controlling the Frame is elusive. Believe it or not, I would suggest Cocky Funny. Cocky Funny is about you holding the higher Frame and her releasing the tension by laughing at your jokes. It is a great way to learn frames. We have a blog on that skill, maybe number four from the top on our blog.

I also want to say, if you are getting stuck in Attraction and fear holding the Frame is not going well, you did not hook the set Socially before you attempted to Attract her. I would work on Opening and building a bit of Rapport before you try to tackle bigger things. Attraction will be far easier.

Good luck!

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