Hi Guys
Very new to this whole scene but I find myself here after years of frustration. Hoping to share experiences and learn a few things from the community here. I'm a 27 year old guy who has had a reasonable amount of women but not anything near the amount I would like to. Here's a brief overview of why I'm here.
Ive had 2 serious relationships in my life (both very hot women) which partly adds to my frustration. I have the occasional ability to pull some hot women but my problem is I always have to know them (both girls were college classmates). If I try to even approach a random girl and say 'Hi' the word won't even come out and I go a very very dark pink colour! It is so bad I can't even approach strange girls that a hitman wouldn't take out! I become self-conscious, tongue tied and upon reflection, extremely boring. So boring that sometimes even I don't want to listen to me when I'm talking to them. What is worst of all is that recently Ive basically became a poodle for women. I just stand there nodding and agreeing with everything (not really listening but more focused on how I'm going to mess it up eventually). And my voice becomes squeaky and soft. Worst of all is that after years of hiding it well and being in relationships which took the pressure off me to chat up women ('hey I can't I got a girlfriend') my friends have now started to notice this and have began to bring it up on nights out, adding to my distress.
Around girls/people I'm comfortable with I am seen as a funny, alpha-male type figure. Once at a party I was even approached by an older guy (mid-40's perhaps) who asked me could he drink in my company because in his words I had 'all the women at my feet'. What I didn't tell him was I new every girl at that party and it wouldn't have been that way had I been a stranger.
Anyways thanks for taking the time to read my intro. I hope to make a few buddies here and I appreciate all feedback/advice good or otherwise.
CHAT