I am a decent looking guy who has always taken care of himself. Seems, the girls have taken notice enough times for me to get pulled into a relationships, seldom out of one. Recently, a young woman showed interest unlike any woman before.. She showed what we all know as indicators of interest--probably more than I noticed. She gave me strong eye contact which has rocked my world and made me take a step back to understand.

Since this interaction, I made strong eye contact with any woman who would have me. As a result, I have heard women ramble on about their feelings, their emotions, calling me to show me nonsense, or what ever. Seems, my eye contact is genuine and women feel a deeper bond.

I'm now reading what I can, and exploring what I can. While, I am still working on my stories and openers, seems the best stuff is the stuff done naturally.

My wife has noticed a change and is scared. She has witnessed at least half a dozen women getting goofy with me for no reason other than I looked at them as we ordered, or whatever. Oddly enough, when those women feel the PEA, so does my wife. The other night we were at dinner and I made strong eye contact with the waitress and the waitress forgot the menu and trembled for a moment. I looked down at my wife and she was trembling as well--women are feelers, so I know she knew what happened. The very next weekend my wife took me to the same restaurant (which really surprised me) and we got the same waitress. My thinking is my wife knew she felt emotions, but not why. Why else would she take me back to the same spot? The waitress greeted me as an old friend and couldn't stop staring at me; clearly wrong to close the deal when on a date with my wife. I humbly left my business card at the table when we left thinking it was a losing proposition, and it was.

This brings me to where I am. I am finding that my social value is way higher than my wife's. I command attention when I walk into a room, or out. I love her, but am not in love with her. Now, with this new found (baby skill) I want more. So, be careful men, you may get what you want. And, it may not be what you expected in the end.

Long story short, I now feel something for another woman, and so does she. But, I am her boss and due to sexual discrimination laws have my hands somewhat tied. Have you ever tried to play chess without hands? Nonetheless, I now need to finish with my wife so I can be me.