Hey,

I'm actually new to the PUA game. I am very interested in learning more and mastering it. I sat down one night and realized I needed to make some changes in my life so that I can be the person I want to be, and meet interesting people.

Do you guys have a good suggestion as to where to start? I read "The Game" and watched the DVDs for annihilation method. I did 4 sets total so far, with some successful areas, and usually the same sticking point.

Any comments would be great!

A good place to start is by going out every day and cold approaching and practicing your game. Day game and club game are really good places to start. For day game you can do it just about anywhere. You can do it when you're shopping, when you're getting something to eat, on the train, or anywhere else. If you mess up it doesn't matter because you won't see her again. For club game, it's obvious in the name where you could do it. Go to one of your local clubs and just game there. Now to help you with this you could have a wingman help you. It's great to have a wingman who knows his game but if you can't find someone who has good game then get someone who'll push you to approach the girl. Alternatively you could get a wingwoman to help you. It helps if she is stunning like a 9 or a 10 as this will raise your value.

So basically to wrap this up you need to go and practice your game every day and have a wingman/wingwoman push you towards mastering your game. Good luck!

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FootballPUA is correct, to get good you must practice. Get out, practice, and fail. Learn from your mistakes and improve.

You already have enough theory with a Book and a DVD set. If you get lost ask questions and practice more. Keep a sticking point journal. You can figure it out. A lot of times, more products mess your head up.

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So far, I've opened 9 sets total. I have successfully opened and have not been rejected once. 3 of them were bachelorette parties. But I noticed that I do the opener, then ask how they know each other, neg, etc. Once I do a DHV, I get stuck. So I end the conversation there, its like I don't know what to say.

Any suggestions on how to proceed?

Talk about yourself. This elicits her to open up more and builds Rapport. The best thing to do to keep talking is to make you and her the subject of the conversation.

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Practice, that is the best thing to do.
Go out and have fun. This not only apply to night game but, actually, to all day. You can go to the Mall, a Bookstore, the Park, any place where you can find people and also entertain yourself.
Not only approach to girls, interact with any kind of people. This would make you more comfortable for any social interaction.
If you are a shy person or have approach anxiety, a good thing to do is to just say "hello" to people. If you are from a place like NYC, I do not mean that you have to say "hello" to random people in the street. What I mean is to not be afraid to say the word "hello". Say "hello" to the workers in a store; say "hello" to people you barely know, like your classmates that are not your bros, that person you take the bus with, the cab driver, your rivals in a soccer match, etc.
Improve your self. This mean as a person and not just for the game. Read more: Buy books of topics that you like or find interesting. Do a new hobby or improve the ones you have: Learn how to play the guitar, learn a martial art, a new language, etc. Be informed about current topics: Politics, economy, sports, music, movies, etc. Also, stop doing things that you know are not giving you anything productive to you, like too much TV or Facebook. You'll see that your time for more interesting things would increase.
Have a set of points when Approaching. This means that by remembering the points or steps you would know what to do next. Do not rely in the points 100%. Those are there to guide you and help you, not as a script. Be in the moment. Flow with the conversation. Good things to have in a set of points or guide are games, like the Cube, and good stories that can be apply to almost any situation.

Do not be afraid of women. Find and learn from your mistakes. Rely in your good qualities and work to reduce the bad ones. Have fun. Do not be a robot. Be your self, but your Best Self.