Hi all, I joined this site because I have had enough! I am so fed up with being unsuccessful with women!

26 year old Philly resident here. I've gone on dates with numerous women in the last four to five years. Knockouts, average looking girls, not so good-looking girls, awesome girls, boring girls, girls with nasty attitudes. I feel like I've met all kinds. I was able to hook up with some of them along the way, had a FWB thing with one girl for four months. However, I am becoming increasingly frustrated with my love/dating life. I have been told I am a good-looking, smart, funny, and a thoughtful guy. And yet, I can't seem to keep the women I want interested in me for a long time. I feel as though I am failing to maximize potential and to be with the girls I truly deserve.

I've read some books (Corey Wayne, The Game). I have gotten advice from people who seem to do well with women. I still don't seem to really "get it." Even though people say dating is a numbers game, I think the problem is me when I am this unsuccessful.

I am ready to swallow my pride and want to absorb as much as I can. Where and how do I begin?

I started by watching lost of RSD videos and doing approaches. Seems to be working for me.

For a new guy, this is how I teach:

1. Go out and socialize. Learn to handle social pressure.
2. Learn the fundamental PUA skills, such as Attraction, Rapport, Qualification, etc.
3. Learn the conversational way points, and common situations and problems. This includes logistics and way point questions, as well as how to bounce, isolate, get a number, etc.
4. Piece it together into your method that works. It an be a method someone else made, or uses. Or no method. A method is just an interaction map.

Learning this way is the most efficacious from my experience and teaching background (It's what I went to school for). Learning the skills first and then piecing them together after you understand them.

The foundation is good social skills. You need to be able to start a conversation and keep a girls attention before you can run any Game.

A lot of GREAT resources exist. This forum has a lot of DIFFERENT opinions, which helps you figure it all out. RSD works. Love Systems works. Gambler's method works. Jugglers method works. AFC Adam's method works. Neil's method works. It all works. It does not work if you do not have the skill sets for Pick Up or have the social ability to use it. That is where you start.

Good Luck!

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Hey man, Just saw your post. Are you interested in going out and sarge together? I am also a straight 27 yo AFC. I have had very little success with women and am sick and tired of repeatedly getting rejected and hearing LJBF speeches. I am willing to commit to overcoming fear of rejection and looking for a community to help me grow in this area. I have read many PUA books but haven’t really practiced the game in the real world.

Let me know.

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As you'll know from Corey Wayne's book, the human mind only retains about 7-10% of what we read. Read the book 10-15 times, like he always nags you to I'm not sure if you have already, but do it if not. I've read it 6 times, and I'm 50 pages in the 7th but I can't bring myself to read it again, not for a while yet.

Also, learning about it is one thing, living it is another. You're clearly not completely clueless with women, so get out approaching!

Do the exercise that Corey talks about in his book; the one about meeting the perfect woman. I think the love letter exercise is kinda fucked up and wrong - all I could think about was my (oneitis) ex girlfriend so yea, didn't bother lol.

Also check out Jason Capital. He's really annoying, but his advice is fucking second to none, in my opinion. He gives you that kind of "I'm God's gift to women!" attitude, to match the "I'm romantic as fuck!" feeling that you get from Corey Wayne... mix the 2 together and you're a NICE dickhead haha.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.