| ABOUT ME:
Name: Conflict
Mid-20's,
Business-IT sales guy.
Score: 20+
Short version: I read Neil Strauss' The Game. At first i was like "holy shit this stuff is good, it just might work for my sales skills too!". Now i can't resist flirting with women, it's getting a bit out of hand because it's too effective, and i'm taken!
It started 2 weeks ago. At first i just couldn't put the book down, and talk about it with the friend who recommended i read it. No harm. But last weekend, i couldnt resist using technology on girls, and my facebook/phone is exploding with hot women. But i'm taken!! How do i tone this down?
Full TL;DR Version:
INTRO: This weekend i went to a certain social event. I like that one because i always enjoyed how i could drop the pretense of being a well-adjusted member of society, and just do whatever i feel like at the time.
I stand outside smoking. A friend of mine boasted about his game, so i pointed towards a girl in a frilly dress, and we battled a bit. He's a natural, but no match for technology, i learned.
PART 1: In comes her friend wearing a bikini with pierced upper boobs "didn't i tell you not to talk to strange men!". I remember the Game; this girl is a queen bee, she might interfere. Rather than trying to please her though, I decide to get gutsy, and switch targets. "Whoa, your friend can be demanding!" Textbook Styles.
Ignoring and negging her for 5 minutes, i focus on the girl i was talking with, and my friend.
Part 1.1: Piercing girl suddenly moves under my arms, presses her chest against me and says: "i'm going to cover up more tomorrow, is that okay with you? it's going to be something giraffe printed".
Trap spotted. "Actually, I very much enjoy a little safari now and then". Both girls laugh and high-five each other, and agree to meet tomorrow. I didn't actually want that commitment though, because i'm sober and i'm taken. So i pretend me and my friend have stuff to do and head inside the hotel. I later saw her on the lap of a really good looking guy that night.
PART 2: I am getting drunk, so my recollection might not be all-accurate. There are some holes in my memory. I was playtalking with this chzech girl i bumped into. She couldn't have been more than a 7. Some girl i vaguely knew grabbed me and opened by introducing me to her. I am too far gone to resist at this point. Without thinking, i ignore her and occassionally neg her for 5 minutes. After that, we started joking around and i take her to a sports bar. There i had the bartender (whom i couldnt resist playtalking later) pour me a long island with 2 straws.
She talked about how she wanted to be a policewoman but couldnt because of her asthma and now she was au-pairing for a family, and showed me how she looked dressed up as a tree-elf or something. Anyways, she stuck on me the whole night.
PART 2.1: Saying i was taken, or going for other girls only escalated things. A blond girl demanded i grabbed her boobs, after a while i agreed. No excuse, but i was drunk. Czech girl offers boobs too, telling me that hers "are better". Pushing her towards other guys didn't help.
PLOT TWIST
Remember the pierced girl with the really good looking guy? I complimented the AMOG on his looks; maybe he was bi because his eyes lit up. Or he really digs compliments in general. Either way, piercing girl tries to focus both of our attention on her. Guy kisses her neck, i ignore the girl and talk the guy some more. She focuses on me and tells me to stop complimenting him so much. "Demanding isn't she?" Thanks for that one, Styles. The AMOG is on my side, piercing girl is on the defense, maybe hesitating about her plans for the night? I'm not sure, i'm a noob at this.
PART 2.2: Out of nowhere, the czech girl grabs me. I make the mistake of responding to her touch. I didn't know how to handle that situation, so i lost pierced girl. Then Czech girl just pounces on me in front of the hotel and tries to kiss me in front of 2 guys hitting on her. I put a hand on her mouth and pushed her away repeating that i'm taken. I felt dirty at this point. Lesson is to apply kino with care, i guess.
PART 3: I also met my with my ex, who was dressed in a lingerie outfit. I playtalked her for a bit, but that re-ignited some spark in her because she playpunched me and gave me that "why am i not over you" look. I was glad her friends were there to cockblock. Big risk there. Not feeling guilty.
PART 4: I playtalked another bartender into giving me some more long islands for free, saying that "the other bartender could make one that was absolutely amazing". I played super smash brothers and smoked some weed with some trashy girls i vaguely know. Enter some other guy whom i could swear was using some form of technology. His prop was using a water pistol and challenging to squirt them if they lost at the game.
He may have handled that better, but the girls didn't seem to care a lot. He actually had his positioning quite well, even though i kind of got a creepy vibe. I guess that's the reaction you get if you're in the shoes of the AMOG? He didn't say much though, or asked a lot of questions. The prop was a crux, not a tool it seemed.
I started to feel competitive, but when the girls got up to leave for the bar, a gay friend of mine grabbed my hand and insisted i had a smoke with him. I didn't protest. I later learned the other PUA crashed and burned by asking for their facebook now i was out of the picture.
PART 5: The only sort of innocent thing i did. There was some youtube-starlet with a notoriously overprotective mom at the event. My friend challenged me to get a picture with them. I focused all my attention on her mom for a few minutes, asked if it were rude if i took a picture with her. Mom agreed, took her camera. I stopped her and said "actually, i wanted to take one with you!". the disgruntled look of the starlet was funny, she posed next to me anyway. Not a high challenge level, but i had fun all the same. It felt mean to try and get the starlet to take the pic.
PART 6: I've known a pair of twins for a couple of years. My natural friend wanted to do them for a long time, but they are kind of reserved. I never talked to them a lot. He got one of them though, after trying for about a year. The other had a boyfriend. After making the mistake of going for single girls, she was to be a "safe target".
I negged her, and focused on the other sister. I also constantly switched subjects as soon as one of them was talking for longer than 2 minutes, giving the single twin slightly preferential SPAM.
PART 6.1: I somehow got the taken twin to spill her fetishes while eating at a burger king. We started off with roleplaying; she didn't like how her boyfriend always wanted to be the dominant role, he was bossy.
I replied that i enjoy tying the other one up. Not because i need to be in charge, but i enjoy the thrill of giving the girl 5 consecutive orgasms with her having no choice but to face the intense pleasure.
PART 6.2: She gave me a strange look, and said "hey, your eyes are green, like mine!". I replied with "I know your eyes, you told me the exact same thing when we first met". "I did? Yeah... we've known eachother for quite a while haven't we?" "We have, haven't we?". Anyways, she started whispering in my ear about how a mutual acquantance became touchy feely on her, imitating how he touched her, on me. I couldn't think of a reply right there, my brain went a bit numb. I have sensitive ears. I used kino, and counted my IOI's. 3 touches, whispering, competing for attention when i focused on the sister, slightly enlarged pupils. Uh-oh.
They wanted me to come to this hobby-thing they have. I said i wasn't free this tuesday, but i'd let them know about another week. I'm not sure i can resist a pair of twins that hot.
PART 7: Finally, I met another cute girl who also has a boyfriend. We took some pictures together, and i left after 15 minutes. Today, I just spent 2 hours talking to her online. She told me about her passions, and how she's not in the right place right now. We agreed to game together after i got my ps3. She needed to give me her SPAM, because i wanted to hear her rage when she loses. She gave me her phone number.
I said i needed to sleep; but kept talking for another hour before actually ending the conversation. Was that wrong? Anyways, i tried to close a "kiss goodnight" through chat. I got "goodnight, no kiss". I chose not to respond anymore. I can see that she's still looking through the chat though. Damn that "last seen: [time] function. She probably knows i looked too.
CONCLUSION: That's my story of this weekend. Judge me all you want, i tried to give a review as best i can. It helps me wrap my head around what happened and, what i should do next. I'm not going to pretend i'm better or worse at this game than i am. Take it as arrogance, but i need to learn how to tone this down. Any tips on controlling this? I can see this consuming me if i'm not careful.
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