Hey everyone, im new to these forums but not really new to pickup/seduction. i have read just about every pickup book available but i don't go out often and i don't do a lot of approaches.

the information i have learned has helped me somewhat. in the past year ive had like 8-10 small "flings" which is about as many as i had had in my entire life up to that point. im 21 years old (almost 22) and im still a virgin. ive been with women who wanted to have sex, but i have always chickened out. i was staying at one girl's house for a few nights just making out and heavy petting and she told me that she couldnt be with me unless i was willing to satisfy her and so i never called her back.

it's not that i don't want to have sex, i just feel a lot of pressure to and don't want to regret it. i feel so pressured that i have even told all of my friends that i lost my v-card, and all of them believe me.

the most recent girl i was with was hot. im talking like 9-10 range, she was a former model. she was also a born-again christian so the sex thing wasn't really an issue. we had amazing conversations, i would stay at her apartment and i was happy just kissing and cuddling all night. the last time i saw her, we made out as i was leaving her apartment and then suddenly she just wanted to be friends.

i can get girls, i don't have any question about that. i always have a girl or two coming on to me on the rare occasion that i do go out. i have even been offered no strings sex more than once.

this probably would have sounded pretty good to me a few years ago, but im completely unhappy with my love life. I have trouble getting up the nerve to talk to women im actually attracted to, and when i do, i put my foot in my mouth or i see them roll their eyes or some other sign of disinterest.

i want more than this. i want to be with women that im attracted to instead of turning down women that im not all that interested in. i want women to need me more than i need them. i want the self-confidence to feel like no woman is out of my league, any recommendations?

I remember losing my virginity, and trust me man its not a big a deal as you would of thought, my advise is to just slam the next woman you get the oppurtunity with, not because sex is so great (even tho it can be! lol), but just because being a virgin creates a kind of mental hurdle. And if you do meet a possible mltr you dont wanna stall on the good sex shes expecting!
ps. I think that born again christian girl wanted to be just friends because you DIDN'T try it on with her!

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