Hi all,

So about a month ago I was in a club, had a great night with my friends then at the end of the evening, as was my usual tactic, much to the amusement and often horror of my friends, I approached a guy who looked vaguely interesting and asked if he would come home with me. Simple as that, no build up, just straight to the point. It worked and we both had a great time.

The next night I was in the same club and a complete stranger walked up to me and complimented me on the success of my previous nights endeavours. It turns out he was the guys friend and had seen the whole approach. We got talking, he spent the first 10 minutes of the conversation completely confusing me talking about various PUA approaches. Once it became obvious I had literally no idea what he was talking about, let alone what the term PUA meant, he directed me to this forum.

I was curious, now here I am.

By browsing through threads I get that I was using a type of shock and awe opener, without being aware, but now am insanely curious as to whether the subtler methods, that I never even really considered, would work for me, or on me for that matter.

I am a 25yr old woman in the UK, and basically my whole approach when picking up men is to be direct as possible. I find watching the majority of men try to awkwardly flirt and drop subtle hints, with either me or my friends, tedious so I try to skip all that, with a high success rate, but I am wondering if it was me trying to be subtle whether I would succeed. I work in sales and thrive on the buzz of successfully persuading people, so it seems like if I could get a guy to essentially talk himself into my bed and believe the whole time it was his idea in the first place, it would be right up my street.

Does anyone know of any challenges I could try, to try this out?

Thanks x

You're a woman. Getting laid for you is way easier. If you want a challenge then you should try to make a happily married man cheat.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Really game is cross gender stuff what works on girls usually works on guys all about being a high value sex partner.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

Game is a subset of what's commonly termed as verbal skills. Honestly, courtship still follows traditional gender role norms. Girl game basically boils down to sending clear signals and being attractive both physically and mentally.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Getting laid as a girl is really fucking easy.

Keeping him interested and stopping him from cheating, that's another thing altogether.

But you're young, you don't need to worry about settling down. Keep doing what you're doing and have fun!