Hi Guys,

I've been newly introduced to The game as we know it. I've been studying for the past few weeks trying to get my confidence and courage up.

I was in a relationship for the past 3 years. Notably I realised I stayed with her because I was frightened that there was nothing else out there for me. I'm a university student studying in London, England. I see my friends who are so comfortable with the opposite sex constantly taking women back and sealing the deal. I couldn't quite get the hang of it.

I've been studying 'The Game' by styles and I've been watching videos of Mystery and a couple more of the Gurus in the game. Unfortunately I don't have the funds available to attend workshops and visit everywhere all over the world, I'm quite restricted and therefore I've decided to look to this forum for advice and someone to help me with the ropes.

I'm trying to get the hang of routines. I've started slow, working on different openers and then walking away. I'm clever enough not to run before I can walk. However, I seem to be getting stuck on the conversations, sometimes I'm unsure of what to say, I try to force myself to be funny and thats where I think i'm going wrong. Do any of you guys have advice on Transitioning conversations to lead towards number closing, Kiss closing etc.? I know its available online and i've been looking its just I have no one to talk to or ask about these types of things (Too embarrassed to ask my friends)

My exterior does definitely not match my interior. I come across as confident however when approaching a woman or situation I'm not comfortable with I tend to become very introverted.


If anyone gets back to me then thanks for the help,

Shuffles.

Hello sir, welcome.

Public speaking can really help with approaching, being introverted, shy, etc. Also, don't go for just the hot girls at first, talk to all women and get used to it.

Cheers.

Hi mate,

Thanks for the advice, any ideas of what types of public speaking I can do?

Thanks

In the states, there is something called toastmasters. Not sure if it is world-wide or not.