Hi everyone,

I guess we all have our backgrounds i.e. where we come from, where we grew up, what we believe in etc. I'd like to share mine and then perhaps we can get down to the cool parts about discussing how to meet and date women.

I am ethnically Indian though I grew up in New Zealand. I consider myself westernised and well I grew up on a diet of playboys and penthouses so it would be fair to say that I am more attracted to the blonde haired variety of ladies. Even though these days interracial couples are not uncommon, picking up women of different races, I believe, adds another level of complexity to your dating game.

Some other stuff about myself. Most people think I am in my mid 20s, I guess I look kinda fresh faced but in reality I am 34 years old! I've had my share of relationships in the past and some were good and some were bad ... I am sure most would attest to similar experiences. I am fairly well off financially. I have my own house and drive a pretty nice car ... but I don't believe these things have much to do with picking up women. The point perhaps I am trying to make is that I am not a dead beat loser without a job or something. I am a successful enough person in my opinion.

Anyways, that is me. Just saying hi and giving a bit of background. I'll now hop over to some of the other sections and have a read through and perhaps post some questions.

Thanks
Kiwi-Indian

What's your biggest fear with approaching a woman?

Smash that fucking fear, beat it to a pulp dude.
Fear doesn't exist.
Fear - DOES- Not - EXIST

Fear is a thought
Only you can think for yourself
Therefore, you make fear.
You are the producer of your own fucking fear.

There is nothing to be scared of except yourself.
She is nothing.
She is scared too.

Well said.