I'm new to the PUA community but I have been aware of it for some time now, a good friend has been trying to get me into it for a couple years but I'll get more into that later.

I live in Southern California, home to some of the most beautiful women in the country. I also, for many years now, work as a DJ in a strip club, a job which employs many of the same skills as the PUA. I have been married, had several LTRs, even more ONSs. When I was married (a long time ago) she and I did the "Swingers" thing visiting a club or a party three to four times a month where we would participate in orgies, partner swapping, 3somes, 4somes etc. What I'm saying is that I'm no stranger to "Game" at least in a minimalist way. (Honestly, how much game does it take to get a woman that specifically went somewhere to have sex with a stranger?) My wife was gorgeous as have been the majority of the LTRs and most of the ONSs and if you saw me you'd understand why I bring that up. I don't consider myself all that great looking, I'd give myself a 5, maybe a 6 on a good day but a lot of these women have pursued me. So, you might be asking yourself "why is he telling us this? it sounds like he's been playing the game as long as any of us so why is he here?" well, I'm about to tell you.....

Remember earlier, I told you about my friend that was trying to get me into the community for a couple of years? When he and I first met he told me about "The Game" which I immediately went out and bought but I'm not much of a reader so I didn't get that far into the book before it started gathering dust. A lot has happened since then... I was living with one of my Ex-LTRs and her new boyfriend (I'm not a jealous person so the answer to your question is no, it didn't bother me) but I moved in with the friend I was telling you about and have since read the game... he's also given me "Rules of the Game" and "The Annihilation Method" and has promised me so DVD's as well but, all this honestly wasn't what brought me here. What finally did is that, about a year and a half ago I met a girl (at the club) that I see to be perfect for me, she's beautiful, a brunette, intelligent (not your average stripper) as a matter of fact the main thing that did me in with her was the fact that.. and this is hard to admit.... she's smarter than me, and I am very intelligent. We went out a few times and yes, I nailed her several times too but nothing came of it. Which brings me to my reasoning for learning PUA techniques.. I can't get this girl outta my head and I need to either fuck enough women to finally forget her or learn to demonstrate enough value to pick her up!

I apologize for the long post but I'm also a writer and sometimes I can't stop myself! Thank you for reading and if you have any tips for me to accomplish either of the above options please let me know... it's time to resolve this!

Thank you
~Tripp