I'm 19, and haven't been out with someone for almost 3 years. Since my previous girlfriend, girls have come and gone but none have gotten to the "girlfriend" stage, and even those girls are few and far between as I find it extremely difficult to take a girl from a friendship to a night out. I have plenty of friends who are girls, as many as guys, but I find it difficult to flirt or ask them out. In the least arrogant way I can be, I've been told I'm not unattractive so to speak, and that it's weird/suprising that I don't have a girlfriend. I really hope I don't sound arrogant, I just really want some help to find someone again.