I'd really like to share with everyone with what I want out of the PUA game and my own personal philosophy behind it. But honestly I don't really want my identity to be wrapped up in being a PUA, infact I kind of think the guys who do are pretty douchey. I came out of a very very severe depression over the death of my brother as well as being in the victim in physically abusive relationship with my only girlfriend. I've gotten to the point where I don't care about getting laid but what I really want to use this for is that I really want to have a reputation of being a man who uses his power to make women feel good about themselves and be a positive force in their lives by me benevolently using their attraction to me to feel good about themselves . To me it's not about even landing a girlfriend, it's about being the "dreamboat" guy for all of the women in my environment. I've finally gotten the self esteem to realize that a 6'4 blue eyed baby faced 25 year-old like myself is going to be attractive to women and I want to utilize those qualities for myself to be the trophy boyfriend knowing it's going to attract women who themselves share those qualities. What I want to get out of this is maybe more perspective on being that kind of guy rather than technique because I believe that the right perspective would come naturally. I look forward to you opinions and advice.