Nice to meet you all,

A little background information, I am 22 years old, I'm currently active duty Marine Corps. I am currently looking at leaving the service in a few months time to pursue a college degree after a 4 year enlistment. I first found out about pus through a book called "the game" which was given to me by my sgt at the time. I was fascinated by the material, I've always had a large interest in psychology" however I found that when it came to application I was unable to replicate the techniques the material taught. I have never had a girlfriend or relationship or any sexual contact no matter what I try I seem to just repel women sexually. I'm by no means introverted I find it easy to start conversations with anyone women or not and its easy to make friends with women, but when it comes to sexual contact or physical attraction, women just never seem interested. A few things I've noticed about myself is I find it difficult to escalate Kino. I believe it comes from an inner lack of confidence due to lack of expirience coupled with a long standing history of rejection. I hear a lot about approaching women cold which is another thing I find slightly difficult. I find I need context or else conversation comes accross awkward. For example when shopping its easy to ask for an oppinion or when eating out starting conversation with a waitress (never works by the way for anyone I've seen) but when it comes to girls in a group or on the street or something its difficult.

Anyway if there's anything anyone on here can do to help I'd very much appreciate it. I'm going to continue to study the forums and practice on my own but my situation feels pretty hard to motivate. I feel rediculous, I have so many skills and leadership ability. I've been able to accomplish so much in my life. I feel like there's nothing I can't accomplish except this one aspect of my life.

Hey! Welcome. I recommend to just start approaching sets and starting on your own without any help of any books. Then when you got experience I suggest you read some material. What's your preference? Day game or night game? Street game, night clubs, bars, stores,...?

hmm thats a good question. i think i tend to prefer daygame possible because there seems to be less initial reaction or cold reaction to when i approach. its also easier to think of things to say i feel like. Im just not a big fan of clubs. theres just too many people arround i dont know how to explain it but they just make me uncomfortable.

When i say daygame i mean in stores mostly or in line or something like that. ill admit i havnt approached many on the street. It seems a bit awkward but possibly thats just an excuse im telling myself? i definitley want to try that more often. Lately ive been having finding women who i even want to approach, outside of places like restaurants or bars or whatever where they are hired partly because they are attractive. Honestly im not sure there really is any places close by that carry a ton of single attractive women my age. I know i could travel to the bigger cities like D.C and what not which i plan on doing this weekend. i just cant afford to do that ALL the time you know? It just would be nice to find spots closer to where i live.

The biggest issue i find is finding reasons to leave base. Its just a weird situation living where i do. theres plenty of single military women but none of those are worth pursuing for many many reasons.

where would you suggest practicing??