Hey guys

Just introducing myself...I'm 19, been lurking for a while and have been working to get over my AA. N-closed a few times in the past week but more importantly I'm just a lot better at starting convos etc. as I was never a very "open" person (grew up in a small town, went to a small private school...) Hoping to take it to the next level soon.

The biggest thing I have trouble with is the what to effin say after the opener and little convo. I always struggle to transition from the direct/indirect/whatever opener and convo to getting the number. I don't know if its lack of experience or just being nervous but I've been trying to get better at it but nothings changed so far. I sure as hell dont want to quickly ask for the number and seem needy and I dont want to make it look like I'm there to talk just because I'm personable. Any insight?

Well thats my intro..see you guys around

For the opener, just be different than the other guys, that tell her she's beautiful everytime etc
for normal convo, you can talk about sex, girls love to talk about sex
the sooner you can bring up sex in a conversation and start talking about it, shell think of how she can get it
and ur gonna be the 1st guy that comes to her mind.