Hello i have between 20 and 30 years old and I have sort of a complicated story with girls. Since highschool I've allways fallen into the friend zone of absolutely all the girls I have liked. And after a lot of time of being good friends I have confessed my crush and all of them have gone away prety fast. Wight now I have a girlfriend and we have been together about 5 years. She is actually very hot and she got in love and sort of conquistated me... The thing is, now the relationship is getting complicated and Im afraid to loose her because I dont think I can get a girl that hot again..... Allthough I dont consider myself ugly and multiple girls have approached wanting to have sex with me I allways manage to fall into the friend zone and they end up telling me all their lives and thanking me for being "that guy who listens" :S:S:S:S Im tired and started reading "The method" by Style and starting in this forum so I hope to get better at pick up and be a very pro PUA. hehe

If you don't want to be in the friend zone, stop being their friend.

Being a "nice guy" is bullshit, so throw that right out the window. I'm not saying be an asshole, but the reason why you are being put in the "friend zone" is you are trying to be buddy buddy with them in order to get laid. First, that's not effective AT ALL and second, it's immoral.

Hiding your intentions is the same as lying.

I'm not saying walk up and say, "You're hot, wanna fuck?" but don't be their shoulder to cry on and don't act like them showing you attention is a favor. Flirt, make eye contact, have a strong presence and make moves to advance in a sexual and NON friendly way.

Sure, they may reject you, but it's better than listening to them whine for hours about their ex.

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Ohh ty mate.... Ive never seen being their friend as lying but it seems u are right..... TY so much and still wanting to be a PUAjejeje so I can learn those kinds of things.... How long have u been in the game?

No problem, glad to help.

I don't consider myself a PUA, I'm just good at talking to women and I like to help other men out. I think there are a lot of great things in PUA that work and help men to hook up, but some of the canned stuff I'm not a fan of. I've always been into picking up girls, I found out about the community about a year ago and I think it's fascinating. Like I said, I just want to help people and this seems like the best avenue. PM me if you have any other questions, I'd be happy to help you out.

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