I need to become SPAM.

I'm a 47 yo white guy, paunch and balding. (Way overweight, actually. I'm down 45 pounds, with quite a way to go still. Don't get old. Don't get fat.)

I am an extrovert and have no problem talking to strangers, even attractive women. But because of my circumstances, I never escalate. And no, it's not because I'm fat guy in his 40's.

I am attached. There are lots of reasons why I cannot get UNattached, and I won't go into that.

I just read a couple of books and am interested to try some things, but I cannot practice in my own town. Too many people know me. So it occurs to me I can only practice out of town. And that will mean ONS only. Anything else would be too risky.

Yes, I know what that makes me.

Without reading every other profile and article on the forum, I wonder if there are others with similar experiences.

As I said, getting UNattached is out of the question. So I must become SPAM.