Dear friends,

I hope you guys accept a girl as part of your team.

I am a "lipstick" lesbian who is defying the feminine convention of "waiting to be approached". In my humble opinion it is the most obsolete concept. Playing the game is so much more interesting and fun.

I just started and I already noticed that it does require a lot of work. But hey: if I want that girl, I will gladly work for it.

Ps. If you ever have complex questions about women, do not hesitate to contact me. We can be really weird beings sometimes. I will help you as best as I can.

Penélope

Since PU is targeted at women, as are you, I see no reason why you wouldn't be welcome here.

Hence: welcome!

"Lipstick lesbian"... in what definition?

Dear Sexession.

In lesbian jargon, "lipstick" means feminine lesbian. The opposite would be "butch", who are more masculine women, etc.

Indeed, aimed at women we are. Pooling resources, I call it.

And now please excuse me, there are a couple of girls who have caught my attention and I would like to apply some techniques on them.

Enjoy the game,
P

I see nothing wrong with it, as being a PUA is not in the body, but in the mind.

If you love deconstructing and reconstructing things in your mind, if you love having a technical view of relationships and social interactions, if you're interested in social engineering, marketing, being a salesman or things like that, then PUA forums are meant for you.

If you also like writing or some other form of recorded presentation, that'd help too (songs, blogs, vlogs, propaganda or banners maybe, or some other form of graphical design?).

Hi Penelope, and welcome.
I do have a question for you if you don't mind...

When you go out to pick up, are you going specifically to gay bars? or a random mixed club?

basically I would like to know if you target particular girls because you know they are lesbian/bi (can you tell easily?) or are you just approaching every girl you like and see how you do?

-Luke.

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Just got to a well known lesbian/gay bar and act like you would normally. You say you don't play the masculine role but want to be approached? You should be inviting women to approach you, check them out, let them know you're interested. That's all. If you're shy or timid it's up to the masculine party to pursue you.

Dear Luke,

Thank you, nice to meet you. Regarding your question, the place is utterly random. I am pretty spontaneous and I approach the girl I'm interested in right at the spot, so it can be anywhere. The other day it was at a cafe (hilarious story, and at the end she told me she was engaged), some other day it was at an office (she kind of smiles back but she has a girlfriend). Therefore, no particular place. Just where I happen to be. What about you?

Dear Games SN,

Thank you for the advice, I take good note. I started approaching girls not so long ago and I have to say it does take guts. I have always been the approached party and now I understand how brave one has to be to go up there and put herself in a spot of potential victory/rejection. It is all or nothing. Like Julius Caesar used to say: "alea jacta est". I do have endless respect for the artistry.
I do have a question, maybe you know the answer. Just what is it that makes the girls react when they perceive they are being checked out? I wonder what triggers that reaction, exactly. It is an interesting topic to me. Is it like a primitive impulse?

me.. usually pubs and clubs. but im keen to enhance my day game so I have been working on that lately.

I was curious because women expect to be approached by guys, but not necessarily by other girls. my wife and I are polyamorous, is been difficult to find girls interested in a threesome outside of the internet. but going out and picking up is half the fun. any advice how to approach a woman as a woman I can give to my wife?

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