Hi all,

I am new to game, and I feel it has changed my life over the last 4 months. Upon initial discovery of the community, I had a rush of energy, excitement and empowerment in my dealings with women. I have gained certain levels of success. I was before utterly hopeless with women.
This period of time culminated in me sleeping with this girl, a girl I have become attached to, and had been chasing for 5 months, and who was probably the trigger for me looking into Game.
I dated her before knowing game, and she blew me off. I learned Game, got confident, hooked up with a few women, and then closed a circle by sleeping with this girl, who I actually liked. She left a few days later. We were both living/travelling abroad, in Central America.

I lost now my initial energy. I pick up on IOIs easily, my standards are higher, but also I do not feel like putting in any effort. I would be dancing with women in a club, grinding etc. and not having the patience to stick around dancing and hope for something to happen at the end, and I just leave.

It has been a month now since she left. Must be something with my inner game. I have done nothing, not much effort.

Has any of you ever felt a drop in pick-up energy, in the will to even go find women, put in any effort?
Any advice on how to reignite this once again?

Sounds to me like you had feelings for her, closed the loop, and lost your drive.

To re-ignite your passion, you need to fall in love with *women* again. After all, this is all about bringing beautiful classy gals into your life. However, if you really dig this chick, then make her your girlfriend if it's logistically possible.

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