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| jquick | PostPosted: Mon Feb 03, 2014 6:58 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Feb 03, 2014 6:45 am Posts: 1 | | Preface: Last night after being out at a local bar I some how lost my ID...
Earlier this afternoon I received a message on facebook from a very good looking girl telling she had found it and would be willing to drop it off or I could come pick it up. After multiple messages of "somewhat" of a conversation, I told her I would come and get it tomorrow. Though I have not met this girl, she is in the same sorority as some of my friends and we know mutual people (not fb mutual friends but truly know the same individuals). I really want to attempt to ask this girl out but I'm afraid this situation wont be right?
Seeking some advice on how I would do so and build an interest in a quick amount of time..
**This is my first time posting so to describe who I am a bit and my current position in this situation.. I would consider myself a good looking individual, unfortunately tho, I am a bit awkward at times. I'm definitely better with women over a period of time (having multiple conversations, etc) vs. picking up girls quickly.. Once girls get to know me I have good odds, but I'm not to good at showing value upon first meeting. Generating the attraction isnt really an issue, it's my ability to exude the necessary confidence to the keep them interested..
Thanks for the help.
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| metomeya | PostPosted: Tue Feb 04, 2014 1:19 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:44 am Posts: 138 | | Sounds like a great opportunity to get to know the girl. Girls like the idea of fate or destiny, and this plays right into this.
One warning: don't come off as desperate. It would be better to come off as shy rather than desperate in this situation.
Anyways, just get your ID and make small talk and end it. Since you are in similar social circles you will run into her again. You can up your chances if you do a little bit of research, just don't get catch.
Don't try to do quick game. It is best used on cold approach cause the girl knows there is no social consequences if she sleeps with you, but you guys are in similar circles so don't.
That being said some sororities sisters are just straight up sluts. So quick game might work right. If you can give her an excuse to come back to your place...that might be all you need. Or that might completely ruin things. But I can't say without seeing the girl.
I would suggest next time you see her say hey what is up. Then hand her your ID and say, "okay, I'm giving this to you so you have an excuse to contact me again, just trying to make things easier for ya," Then you can give a wink.
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