Hello there. I am Spax. I like to play games, both computer games and social games (if you know what i mean. ha ha ha). My goal here is to continuously improve, to be a better guy in the future who good with anything related to social interaction.

I am 22 this year. How do i got into "the game"? To summarize, i feel my love to a girl was unappreciated and being treated coldly by most of the girl that i ever love. And yeah, I never have a GF before. So one night (and that night was about 3 months ago), when i was hurt a lot, i had found a pop-up advertisement about this attracting girl stuff. I bought a book before which is about psychology in a relationship "the title is 'make-up don't break up" but it was boring and i don't find it's working for me and so i lost hope that there is gonna be a book that tell me the rules of dating and how to get the girl. But anyway, i just give that pop-up advertisement a chance to convince me there is a good book about seduction. When i click it, i tell myself "i just gonna watch this for 5 minutes i guez". But things don't go as i plan since that's advertisement was really amazing and really convince me while at the same time give me so much hope in girls and more motivation. The way i view the world just change at that night.

And can you guez what's the advertisment it is about? Tao of BADASS. Yeah!! That is what i been looking for all these time. All my question why do girls react this way to me, why i can't get girls, why and why, have been answer just by reading that book. Nightmare is over! It was also during that night, after watching the advertisement, that my mindset about girls changes. Last time i just choose a girl who is just average beauty or a little bit more average in physical attractiveness because for me, that is all that i can get. I am not that cool guy, not really tall, not really handsome so that's all that i can afford with. But things change a lot at that night. My new mindset is "I can get any girl that i want!".

But i am not satisfy with the material in that book. Surely that is not all that it takes to get a girl, right? And so i get more intrigue and curious about girls and seduction and so on. Which led me to read books by Thundercat. But i still not satisfy, which led me to read the book by Kezia and it is there i know about PUA.

And in PUA, i prefer the methods by SASHA, Day games. Why? In my country, there is no night club. And i am living in Asia. From what i learn, direct approach by Sasha is the best way since not many people around here dare to approach stranger girls and even if they dare, to tell the girls their intend directly is not usual around here. To be unique and different from other people, that is what it is all about in the attraction phrase, am i right?

Hello, welcome to the forum first of all.
The tao is fantastic, i promote it on my site along with a few others.
To answer your question, not all girls are the same. Different techniques work for different women, that is why filling your head with as much knowledge as you can improves your chances. For example on my site i promote two certain products im thinking about, one is an all around PUA guide, one is just based on how to text, and how to handle textual situations. You really wouldn't be ready for any situation if you read just one.

My advice is to read forums tirelessly. buy any programs you think are beneficial. practice practice practice. any technique you hear about FAIL and learn. For example if you read a book about frying fish, you couldn't call yourself a chef if you only knew how to fry fish. what happens if someone comes in and orders a steak? In the same way you need to have psychological routines for many of the situations that occur, and for the ones that you cant anticipate, you need to have a broad enough understand so that you can improvise and not panic and guide your situation back into a routine you're familiar with.

To try and answer your question a bit more specifically, the key is really confidence but that is just your base. The real trick to PUA in general is that there are psychological triggers built into women (and men) that provoke certain reactions out of them. So it's really knowing those triggers and knowing how to apply them in modern day situations. a true PUA can pick a girl up at a train station so it shouldn't matter if there are no clubs. I hope that helps you out a bit in direction and again welcome to the forums. If you're interested in reading a bit more feel free to visit my site.

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