5 second intro im 18 and im sick of this fucking shit

ive been without a girlfriend for years the only gF ive ever had asked me out.

my little brother whom is 5 years younger then me is starting to date and its so fucking embarrassing. last night we where arguing and he even used it against me.. saying i haven't had a gf in forever.

its really made me step back and look at my self..

i know im a good looking guy im so just unbelievably pathetic when it comes to girls i dont even know what to do at this point.

i feel like missing dating in highschool made me a loser, what girl wants to date a college guy thats a virgin and has only had one gf ... i dont even know how to get out of this

its taking a serious toll on my mental health , i haven't been truely happy in months and in sick of this

rant over.

please if any of you have been in similar situations and excaped them any words of wisdom would be great

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dont let anyone else determine your mental state. is it possible to be happier than your brother without having a girlfriend? the answer is yes. that doesnt mean to go without a gf but my point is dont let anyone else be your standard. you are your standard. if you enjoy yourself and are happy with yourself, then girls will come naturally. find a healthy hobby, make friends who are going to push you forward, and read up on some pickup material

Welcome. It seems like you're determined enough. Set yourself free from the old you (philosophical, eh?) and soak up all the knowledge this forum has to offer.

seems to me like you lack confidence. If you attempt to talk to girls with the attitude "what girl wants me because of..." then no girl will. Instead step back forget about it and take a new approach. Next time you go out, make yourself believe that you are the man, its your choice as to which girl is going to be going home with you tonight. Don't put fear in your head before you even make an attempt, or you've already lost your battle.
=] my 2 cents.

Yep, good advice above.

You have to get in the mindset that YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

Why is this HB being put on a pedestal? This girl may be in the exact same position as you (with genders swapped round....or not ).

It is difficult, but you assume that the HB has had alot of sex, when this may not be the case. In alot of cases, yuo'll both be in the same boat, and not realise it.

Good point ajberry. An 24 year old HB told me last sunday she's only been with two guys (3 year and 2 year relationships). My jaw literally dropped, I had expected her to have twice the number of partners I've had.

Don't assume she's more experienced than you.

If you read 'The Game', some of the most successful pickup artists started off worse than you.

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On we plough.

Love,

Ace

You need to believe that you are the real deal. Have some confidence in your speech and how you act around women. The more confident you are the more women will perceive you as confident. Put your ex-girlfriend and your virginity aside. Look deep within and be the alpha male you feel like you are inside.

we've all felt down at one point in time or another. you are heading in the right direction by doing something about it. it can be learned just stick with it.

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Become a DJ! Well, something like that. I would get involved in something I love to do that's social. What worked for me was becoming a DJ. I love music, dancing, and people, so this really worked for me. It was crazy! My social circle grew dramatically. My house had become the meeting place (I don't know why). So I would shoot out of my house to the party my crew and I were throwing with like a 5 to 10 car caravan that would soon grow so much that the cops would break the seemingly unending line of cars (Many people knew my car). We'd roll with our core group of female friends and then hook up with new ones 2 or three times per week. The social proofing, needless to say, was through the roof. But the main thing that was occurring here is that we were not focused on picking up girls. We were focused on having a good time. I was excited about throwing down my new set to see how I could make the crowd grow crazy. We were into dancing, laughing...we would just fall into this zone. So what I'm saying is , find something that moves you and get into a zone with it. I didn't focus on getting laid. I just did my thing and girls would come around and they would introduce themselves to me or ask me to stay over, etc. I would actually turn a lot down cause I was more interested in DJing and partying with my friends. And, yes these were HB 8-11s. Many of them trying to lock me down, which one eventually did (but then I managed to break loose after a year hahaha). I'm now in music production which keeps me in my zone, and girls are still coming at me. But they are not my priority. Building a quality life is. Build it and they will come. Just make sure you know how to interact with them once they come and don't break your zone.

My 2 Cents,
-LS

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