Hello everyone! My interest in becoming a PUA started after reading Neil Strauss' book, "The Game". I thought joining forums like this would greatly help me in this journey so here I am.

I am 26 years old. Asian. 5 feet 8 inches tall. I work as an IT Consultant for a global firm. A few years ago, I look like a total nerd but when I decided to hone my social skills I changed how I look. Now I look like an average guy but I guess it wasn't enough to attract women.

I've dated before but all of those girls have been introduced by family or friend. And it took me months just to ask a girl out. I want to be able to attract women in an instant. To be able to confidently go into a club or a bar and approach a girl that I'm interested in.

I don't know if this is a problem or not but I always want to follow steps rigorously. I memorize openers and routines. However, if something doesn't go as planned, my mind goes blank. I have tried sarging before and so far, my score is zero. I need to be spontaneous and that is why I am going to absorb and learn everything I can from the masters.

Any comment or advice is very much appreciated. I am willing to be torn apart so that when I bring back the pieces of myself together, I'd be a better man and a better artist.

Thanks all!