Hi guys! My name is fei and I am from Singapore. I chanced upon "The Game" online in 2009 and used the techniques outlined back then(opener, cocky-funny, palm reading, the cube etc) to get my 1st girlfriend, I was 15 back then. However, the relationship ended badly and I was dumped. I have no idea how to maintain a LTR and was totally not ready for it. Since then, I have not indulge in PUA materials due to this bad experience. Also, while there were many girls who voluntarily expressed interest to me during my high school after which, I did not dare to step into another relationship again because of this. 4 years have passed and I have gotten over the bad experience and realize it's my own fault for screwing it up. I dabbled into PUA materials again 4 months ago and have been achieving some kind of success(making out in clubs, number closing). But I am dealing with this fear of relationships and couldn't take my skills with women further, I was so scared that I couldn't even have a one night stand since I fear that it would get into some kinda relationship again. #stuggling to get over this fear. Surprisingly, the community has evolved sooooooo much since I last came back. I have been studying a lot of natural game and prefer it over techniques and canned materials. I join this forum to get some form of social support since I am practically learning this stuff myself online (: