I'm the 'nice guy' that the girls want to be just friends with...meeting or talking to women isn't a problem (raised with three sisters) but closing seems to be my block. I need your help in taking my game to a new level.

man u got the hard part out of the way if u can walk up to any girl and start conversation.....all u have to do is being able to make a conversation focued on u, and being able to learn how to lead it to where u want them to be at. thats all practice. like i said, if u can talk to them w/o a problem, ur going to do just fine....just be teachable and put it into practice...do this often enough till u have no problem and thats it! sarging time!

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if you think you should, then do it!

Every part is the hard part if it's the part you are having trouble with.

It seems to me (based on the horribly small amount of information I have)that you haven't even really learned to approach yet. If you keep getting shunted into the LJBF zone, you are probably doing something wrong from the start.

My suggestion is to read as much as you can. Read Mystery's stuff. Read Juggler's stuff. Read DeAngelo's stuff. And see where you can pick out your own mistakes from the beginning on in. Most of the time, you'll find that if you can get into the LJBF zone, it's a matter of calibration and learning to shift a conversation to a sexual place (and thereby build sexual tension). Those three men will help you do that.

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Thanks Sly but Monkey is absolutely right, the hard part for me is creating/maintaining the sexual tension and avoiding the LJBF comment. I just picked up "The Game" by Strauss, it seems to be a highly recommended source, any other recommended titles?

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Mystery's Method to get the basic outline

Juggler's Method to complete your structure and not fall in LJBF zone (SOI are some of the best tools we have)

David Deangelo To grow confidence

Youa re ready to sarge.

I will tell you first to read this 3 books and then read The game but do whatever you want. Because The game is just the story of how Neil become a great PUA but it doesnt't show you how to do it and those three books can teach you that.

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Thanks xfman. I started reading 'The Game' and quickly realized it was short on "how to" info. I'll check out your recommendations...thanks.

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