Yeahhhh heres a short story. Im a senior in highschool never had a girlfriend before. then i started googlin and youtubin how to pick up girls and shiit, then i came across the pua, iv'e read every single free thing i could, i even read "the game" by neil strauss. butt yeahh it all gave me an understanding of girls, and with the understanding came along some confidence. I even had my first date with a HB8 last week. butt the date didn't end in anything speacial. I guess because during the date all i could focus on was keeping a conversation going, which didn't go too well. butt yeahh maybe because i didn't do any negging or kino, because of that i never got any SOI's so thas gay. Anybody wunna give me any useful tips to have a fun and exciting date i can use for next time?

Hey Spade! Good to have ya. You sound exactly like me during my Junior year of High School and your post sounds exactly like my first real date with a very attractive girl.

First off, stop calling yourself a loser! If you believe you're a loser, the girl you're out with will see that and be turned off. If I'm right in thinking that you're like me before my first gf, then you should find some material to build confidence and self esteem. Also sarging WILL raise your confidence even if it is a newbie mission like saying "Hi" with a big smile to every girl you pass at the mall one day

Second, in my experience, action dates are the way to go. I'm not sure what you did with her on this date, but mini golf, ice skating, bowling, Billiards(Pool), and so on have all been winners for me. Some of them can get you some great kino in themselves because you might have to "help" her figure out how to hold the pool cue, or the golf club, help her up if she falls while skating and vice versa. (cheesy, but it works!)

Action dates also keep the date fun and interesting, and sometimes even a bit competitive which keeps you from feeling like you need to keep conversation flowing constantly. I hope this helps!

~Muse

wow action dates, its so obvious but i never even thought bout it. cuz im new and all. cuz what we did was went to the movies. butt thats it. those are very helpful ideas!! and it will build attraction because kino is involved and more fun activities involved, instead of a boring movie. thx muse you helped me alot haha.

Yeah , movies are bad idea , you can't talk...

Everybody think the best date are the movies , cuz is a dark palce and they think they will get a lot of kino , but this is cuz in all the movies we see that .... but anyway you can go to many palaces liek go karts , etc...

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Your lack of self-confidence shows in the way you word your posts. Practice being more assertive. Have the confidence that what you have to say has value. Don't apologize for yourself, and don't second-guess yourself. Just be yourself. Know that you're a great guy and think how much better her life will be when she finds out how great you are.