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Ho. So my trouble seems to be getting stuck in the friend zone. Tho I have recently managed on getting a FWB/NSA relationship. I'm wanting to learn how to get out of it.
Thanks for the read.
I don't know if this intro is suppose to be longer.
My number is 2.
Welcome to the forum man!
These are the main reasons guys get stuck in the "friend zone"
SHOWING TOO MUCH INTERESTED TOO FAST…
One of the BIGGEST mistakes guys make is showing too much interest in a girl too fast. You need to make sure that she is attracted to you and she EARNS your affection and compliments. Telling a girl she is “beautiful” or “gorgeous” is not a compliment. You are telling her that because you want to be nice to her and you think that will get you laid. Stop it. It is generic and if she TRULY is beautiful, she is going to hear it all the fucking time from lame guys.
NOT ESCALATING PHYSICALLY….
If you do not be a touchy person and just stand there like you are robotic, she is going to think you are a funny, nice guy. Start touching. This is a “nice guy” habit because they are afraid to ruin their reputation should she reject your escalation. If she sense that you aren’t comfortable touching her outside, she will also think that you aren’t comfortable touching her inside. If you are not comfortable, she is not going to be comfortable. Don’t be afraid. Create the sexual tension but be able to take it away.
BEING TOO NICE…
Women are not machines that you insert kindness coins into and sex comes out. Learn how to put up with her shit and learn when you should be nice. There is no reason to be an asshole but there is also no reason to be a pussy who agrees with everything she says.