hey, im 20 and its safe to say im fairly useless when it comes to women. im not a virgin, but i never had sex with any one i fancy or find attractive and they have always been one night stands. for most of the past i have had oneitis, but that failed miserably (the only time i think i properly went for it with someone i like).

id say im an afc. i want this to change so thats why im here. i can also be extremely awkward when talking to girls i want to get with (i can talk to them normally, but if i have the intention of trying to get with them i am king awkward)

most of my sexual experiences, actually probably all of them, have been after ive been drinking and on a night out.

im often thinking 'what the hell happened there?' and 'im sure she liked me' but then it turns out she doesnt, i have a particular example of this which was quite recent.

anyway im sick of coming home alone after nights out and i need this to change.... also im going to a music festival next week so i want to maybe try a few new things out there to see if im not absolutely hopeless.

cheers