| WHAT IS UP LADS!
I realized that a lot of PUAs in general tend to go by an alias. I figured that I might as well follow the lead and from here on out refer to myself as Nicron. Why Nicron you may ask, I haven't the slightest idea. It was rather a spontaneous decision that bore no second thought.
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NOW LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT ME
So I grew up in a rather religious household with very strict values (no alcohol, no smoking and especially NO GIRLS!) Its been almost two years since I decided to drop these stupid rules which were forced upon me and decided to live a more exciting and fun life.
MY PERSONALITY
Because of my early religious lifestyle, I have yet to have girlfriend, I haven't even made out with a girl yet. I absolutely adore social interactions and I would tag myself as quite a party person. From what I have been told and my personal experiences, I'm not an ugly person. I've had a handful of girls approach me and tell me I'm cute or even just come and simply kiss me on the cheek. MY PROBLEM is that I shy away when I find out a girl is attracted to me. Don't get me wrong, I can be the loudest guy in a club, but the moment a cute girl comes and kisses me on the cheek or just comes and talks to me, I turn into a small talk ant. I believe the origin of this problem comes from my religious values of respecting women, which seem to still be stuck inside me.
In my social circle (which is quite large), I've been branded as the "funny" guy. I'm one of those people that can say virtually anything and it would be hilarious. I feel as if this quality of mine could easily work with me or against me. What I mean by that is that, sure laughter is the best medicine, but at the same time I don't want to be considered the "fool" either.
I find that I can easily talk to 90% of the people I meet. Once again this could work for me or against me. I can link conversations between one another in a pretty entertaining and funny matter. The problem with this is that I don't want to come off as a chatter box or be placed in that dreaded friend zone right off the bat.
MY BIGGEST PROBLEMS
- Like I mentioned earlier, I turn into an ant when a cute girl comes and talks to me
- I need to lose my nice guy persona and that whole respect women bullcrap (I'm not saying respecting women is wrong, I love women, I just have to tone it down so that I don't come off as a total kiss-ass sap)
- I have loads of energy, something which I need to learn to control at times.
- Opening a set of people I have never met before
- I can open alright, its just that I go wayyyyyyyy beyond the 3 second rule. A form of anxiety always builds up and I keep having a back and forth fight with my emotions
-I HAVE TONS OF PROBLEMS, I JUST CAN'T SEEM TO THINK OF THEM ON THE SPOT.
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That's my story people, I'm here to learn, experiment and most of all, have fun. I'm very interested in talking to and meeting every single one of you. I have a lot to learn to improve my game and I feel as if this is the right place to share my stories. Signing up to this forum is my first step to an experience of a lifetime!
Lets doooo dissssss!
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