Hey, how are ya.

I'm a melbourne (Australia) guy, 23 years old, 24 as of the end of this month.

my 'pick up' and self improvement journey like most guys here started when I felt like I wasn't getting the results I not only wanted but DESERVED, as I believed I was this great guy. So did everyone else, but I just didn't eem to be able to get the girls I wanted. This was at 18, when I finished high school. I first stumbled across some David Deangelo stuff, and thought I'd give it a haphazardous try.

my REAL journey became, when I once again stumbled across PU material at the age of 20, and resulted in me finding the melbourne lair, our local pick up community which, from what I'm told, is one of the best of the world.

I started by learning mystery method, found myself some lair wings, and started to develop some skill and started to 'get it.' I learned fuckloads about seduction, women, men, social dynamics, inner games stuff, appearance, pretty much everything.

With what I deemed limited success still, I sought a coach, and then partook in our local seduction long term workshop, by these guys called the natural lifestyles called the masterclass. It was like the rabbithole. It just seemed to get deeper and deeper.

Its been about 3 years now. I went from a virgin who had kissed 6 girls in my entire life (3 of them in truth or dare, lol) to a guy whos SNL'd 3 girls, kissed 60-70 girls and gone on a handful of dates. my 'inner game' was ok before (better than average) and is now becoming super strong. Same with my outer. I've improved every area of my game/life i can think of.

I love exercise. I'm looking for a new job as a personal trainer. I like helping people, but helping people who want to not only help themselves, but help others too. I at some point want to take a more holistic view and move from personal training to life coaching.

Goals:
Get an amazing beautiful girlfriend.
Earn, then save $1,000,000
Own a gym
Do post graduate study
Have a steady income, both passive and from a job
50 posts here so i can post in the inner lounge or whatever here, lol

Finding a gf is relatively easy these days. Just hop online -- you don't have to strike up a conversation in a bar or bookstore -- there are thousands of women just waiting for someone like you to email them.

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never said it was hard, I have done a little online stuff but I'm a bit stubborn and I feel its taking 'the easy way out' and I could start to neglect going out and meeting new people, which I love to do.

thanks for the suggestion though, ill definitely keep up the percentage of online stuff I'm doing, and start to do more.

Welcome Deviate.

Good to see you that you've made progress and hope you come closer to achieving your goals.

As a minor suggestion (if you didn't do it yet), I would say to keep the goals you have but for each goal make smaller short-term goals. Write them down and set deadlines for yourself.

Have fun.

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great idea, no i haven't.

thanks guys