Hello all,

This is really weird for me, but I got to do something different to change what my current outcomes are. I really want to grow as an individual. I heard about this community after reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss (what a shock, right). You never know how you can find some of this information though.

Well here is my first step in admitting I need to change. I am 23 and finishing my undergrad in college. This is my last semester and I want to end it with a bang. I am excited to collaborate and learn from you all.

Sincerely,

RayBaz

P.S. This is a story from my sarge last night if you want to read. The sarge was not successful. If not continue on.

So my friend and I were hanging by the bar and the music started to really get exciting. Girls began to show their moves and guys attempted to grind up and catch them. Watching some of the guys was really funny, which led to me impersonating some of the dance moves that the guys were doing.

So some girls near us noticed and we began talking the them(there were 3). They asked my friend to do the dance, but they realized that he couldn't do anything. Then I was trying to show him how to do the moves and one of the girls started laughing, the other was impressed, and the last girl was too busy trying to show the guy how to do something. I thought I would challenge the girl who was laughing to dance, but she just shook her head no. This kind of interaction went on for a couple minutes, then I decided to stop doing anything because I was going nowhere fast.

We began talking and we exchanged names. We talked simple stuff like our year, major, etc. etc. The girls would every once in a while start talking amongst themselves and I would be standing there awkwardly. This is when doubt began creep in. This happened for a while and two of the girls left and I was able to talk to one. The club was loud so it was very difficult to talk and my focus was all over the place. I tried to give really good eye contact showing that I was confident. I tried to keep things going you know by asking "what is your dream after graduating?" and so on. She seemed really responsive to that question and she lit up. (note to self: dreams question is a good question) The girl I was talking to was really nice about a 6. Most of these girls were 5-6.5. She was really impatient because she was waiting for her friends to come back so she could say her goodbyes and leave. We talked some more and her friends came back and she said she enjoyed talking and meeting, but she was leaving.

So she left and we are left with two girls. We began talking and one of the girls asked if she looked like a lesbian and I knew this was a shit test or something I felt like if a mPUA was there they would have exactly know where to take this, but I replied "Do you want to look like a lesbian?" and she just looked at me weird. Then she almost seemed offended that I didn't say anything, but then the she said that because she was wearing athletic shoes. I commented that wearing athletic tennis shoes doesn't make you a lesbian and that she is a health conscience person. I then proceeded to say that she needs to lower the zipper on her sweater a little bit because it was all the way to her chin. She lowered it about 2-3 inches below her neck and she did look more relaxed and nice. Then I said "There you go you look a lot better. You don't look so butch anymore." She looked in shock and in my head I was like "oh shit, took that too far." Then she proceeded to kick me in my shins as a joke and I took this as an IOI. I could be wrong.

So I started slightly kicking her back. I felt like throughout the night I was dancing around being close to something. I ended up finding out the other girl was meeting a girl there for the first time and I was like that was cool. The girl who kicked me said "what are you jealous? did you think you were going to sleep with her tonight?" Then I thought I would reply "Why would you say that? What makes you think I wanted to sleep with her?" and then she answered you guys are really weird. I really wanted to be with the kicker she had a nicer smile and better body figure. They ended up leaving again for a drink, but then it just ended up being me and my friend. So I realized that we were played hardcore. So I told my friend that it is a lost cause and we needed to move on.

That night I tried thinking what I did wrong and what I did right. I know it wasn't a complete disaster because after writing this story down I realized there were maybe some chances to redeem myself or I could have been shot from the start. Here is a story from my first sarge and it wasn't a success, but now I just want to go out and try again.

If you have any comments. It would be great. I know this is a long post and a long way to introduce myself.

Good day to all.

Welcome!

I think you just had to be less of an interested nice guy and relax.
And use Kino Escalation!!!