Hi guys!
I have been lurking here for a while now and finally got off my ass and signed up. That was mainly due to the good vibes i got from reading a lot of threads where most members and moderators showed a positive attitude to eachother. As well as huge amounts of knowledge and what seemed to be a willingness to share and discuss!
Q: Who am I?
A: A blank pice of paper... I am a 24yo swede hailing from Stockholm/Gothemburg. During my short life i have gained a good bit of knowledge in not so few areas. I am a practising musician, a law student, former athlete, poker player, and a nerd when it comes to nature and ecology. On top of this I am a pretty decent chef
Now, I have always felt content about where i was i life. At least up to my late teen years. Then things changed. I dont know why, (I have some thoughts on the matter but i won't cover that here).
After years of ever falling selfesteem and confidence there is not much left of the former, content, confident me. I am in serious need of change and I think this forum could help me progress and develop into a man who can face the mirror and like what he sees.
When it comes to girls i have had some previous experiance with two long term realationships and a few ons.
When my last relationship ended about a year and a half ago i was a broken man. Not due to the break up, wich was more the result of me being broken. Since then i have made no new friends, but lost several. Had no interactions with girls what so ever, lost my job and fucked up my studies.
My main goal with this jouney i now start is to bring out the more sociable sides of my personality and become comfortable in any social situation. I like to be liked, and I like to like people. I love women and I love sex. I am a social person, but right now long term isolation and a constant growing social anxiety is suffocating all that is good in me. I have a lot to give and i am sure a lot to learn.
So, I'm new to the PUA community but i have a good feeling about this and hope for your support and hopefully, in time, I too will be able to contribute!
/ E.Dantes