So I've pretty much been an introvert my whole life and stuck inside and confined myself to playing video games. I joined the Army and nothing changed really...ok a small bit but not with the opposite sex really. I've never really been able to pick up anything like an 8-10 but found it pretty easy to get to start talking and have a good conversation. I often find myself have a good conversation but not know how to use Kino Escalation properly. I think my starters are pretty lame but I usually just say what's on my mind. The only numbers I've managed to get recently were from a girl at college (that's prob like a 3-4) just because we shared the same interests and whatnot. And the other was yesterday at Burlap (an Asian/cowboy bar here in san diego) from a woman who was at least double my age...not going there. I've tried a few tactics like the whole jealousy thing but it sort of backfired and the girl just left. I'm 22 and would like some help in the game.