How is it going, My name is Michael... I stumbled upon this site when I was looking for ways to overcome my social anxiety to pick up woman. My goal is to find the "one" as crazy as that sounds. My girlfriend of four years left me out of the blue and left me to pick up the pieces. I took the break up so hard I ended up in the hospital. She was my first girlfriend, I am 20 years old and now single. I am turning 21 in less than a month and a half so Sarging will be rather difficult without being in a club lmao...

Hey Michael! I wrote tons of posts in this forum maybe they will be of help to you. Girls are extremely whimsical especially nowadays. If you look for the one picking up random chicks at clubs may not be the way to go. The one is an invention of romance novel fiction, courtly romance novels, hollywood feelgood drama teenage comedies and Christian victorian era literature. The one is someone you create by finding a girl who is so into you that she swallows every desire you feed into her mind and adopts it as hers. Hence my saying: "I love a girl with a good idea, then again those ideas are usually my ideas implanted into her mind."