| I'm glad to meet you all, and you will be glad to meet me.
I'm Michael from BC, Canada. 35. Cold approach pick up has changed my life.
My history with woman is a few LTRs I made through social circle and very long dry spells. I was utterly and completely clueless about every single aspect of how to know and interact with woman. Blind, def, dumb, and stupid. I dated on POF a bit, but mainly first dates. After an number of sexual self-disappointments I withdrew for a long time. Years...
At my worst I was an unemployed shut-in. I couldn't say hi to a grocery clerk. I had never made eye contact in my life. I did end up getting a job in a pub as a cook, and there I met a gorgeous girl... who asked me to hang out! Blew it. Friendzone. Clueless. I was lovesick for months. For some reason I had an epiphany: GREAT woman have come in and out of my life so many times that the problem must be me.
I was hopeless, an emotion wasteland, no good to anyone or myself. I decided to draw on the Cognitive behavioral therapy stuff they taught me in "group". Anxiety was the enemy: in general, and specific to woman and sex. I was and am very, very avoidant of sex. Because of that I couldn't even talk to girls.
At first my self-guided therapy was to simply go out and be in a bar full of people without a panic attack. Didn't always work, and attention from a girl could easy cause me to flee to the bathroom to hide. Eventually I found PUA on youtube. I still don't really get with girls much. I was coming from so, so, SO, far behind that it shouldn't be surprising that I haven't conquered all of my personal demons yet.
I've gamed for about 6 months. Despite my lack of sex, I am ever more astounded at these emerging jedi powers. Listen... I'm smart, really smart. I came across RDS and hit it hard. I did 92 days straight at nightgame and a tiny bit in the day. I fixed my calibration problem. Hardcore. I don't know what "matrix vision" looks like to other people, but what I've ended up with must be in that direction. Now I KNOW girls like me. A lot.
So, I know that material. I know where I'm going. I am intellectually and socially (thanks to RDS inspired game trauma) confident. I just need to hammer away at this shit until I find my mojo again. Time, I have. And I love gaming. I hit on girls constantly. Only now going for number closes and ask outs. Opens are ever more skillful and easy. I have balls in approaching. Alpha as fuck. I gather flocks and fill the dance floor with my presence. Which is odd because at first I couldn't stand next to a stranger. yeah for CBT!
When I get over this hump (lol... pun) my intention is to be a social coach for ultra hard cases. I find these guys when I'm out and talk to them about it all the time. People are eager to learn game from me. I have a good story, honesty, and a genuine desire to help guys who's life's paths has made them awkward and lame like I was.
That's it. Ask away.
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