Im 21, I go to a 'mini ivy' liberal arts college, originally from New Jersey, 5'6", cute, brown hair, white, and in shape but not a jock.

I recently got dumped by my 3-year first love and girl who swapped virginities with me because the distance relationship wasn't working out. I haven't really looked at other women in years and don't know how to be confident or smooth, at least not at parties or if a superior male is present. I will only be young once, and I want to make up for the time I wasted on my ex-fiance by sleeping with girls now, and will do whatever it takes to make it happen. Honestly, my dream goal is to pickup a girl of every nationality and physical trait, like a Jacque Cousteau of pussy.

Right now I'm working out and relearning french, and will spend a chunk of the cash from 'the war chest' to redo my wardrobe before the next semester starts. Hopefully these tools will help me.

Other than that, I'm lost. I can't dance, and it's embarrassing to try and get girls to talk to me when there are so many taller guys crowding every party. I'm terrible at openers and negs, and am naturally kind of shy and I tend to mumble if I get nervous. If anyone has any advice, I'm all ears, and thanks.