hi frndz iam a married man and need help ur in understanding my recent affair.
i had a colleague almost 9 year younger to me she used to be very frank with me and even touch me often. it all started like a game some time she used to tell she like to have husband like me she asked me to be frnd but at every stage she put forward one step and went back four. unfortunatlly she had fight with her boss nd has been sacked from office while i was on leave. then we met once out of office. second time she invited me to at her potential work place and she went with her potential phd mentor so we could not met properly. So i put one SMS that i have some self respect. then after two months she SMS me that she was sorry and showed interest. but when we met she started conversation that cn we get marry? i told her if she want we can she agreed to wait till her phd is over so i agreed but end of the day while going back she told i should take care of my wife So again i felt angree and come home next day she SMS in morning. i replied i am in company bus so cant talk. after few days my wife called her n they met and talked (i dont know what) my wife told me that it was a friendly meeting n she is a genuine girl but she told her that she is not going to meet in future. then she called me n told that she will marry to guy her father will select n should take care of my wife so i said as u wish.
but after three months i missed her n asked how she is? she dint responded at first then i reminded her that i met her when she felt sick to see me but now i am feeling like that. she replied she don't want to disturb our family life n so she wont show me her face very politely through SMS. i cant understand she loves me or she just played game?