Hey guys, a little about myself here.

I'm starting on the forum because it was founded by my most respected role model Rich La Ruina and it can prove a useful tool if used right. That means weeding out the bullshit from the practical stuff, and using it to improve - rather than escape - reality. We can always improve ourselves and its 100x easier with help.

First off I want to say: I cant stand when people talk about themselves unless it benefits someone else somehow - so hopefully you get something out of this. Here goes:

Writing this today I get any woman I want consistently and effectively, without trying - but it wasn't always that way. I'm a human being like everyone else. Long story short I learned about attraction, connection and seduction. Not theories, but actual usable material.

Natural qualities that work for me:
1) I love people, especially women, and spread the love everywhere I go. Everyone loves a lover.
2) I am genuine, honest, and direct. People don't like fake and they can sense intent.
3) I have many passions and hobbies so I'm always busy.
4) I learn from my mistakes. I even embrace them as learning opportunities now.

Natural qualities I had to overcome:
1) Anxiety and fear of rejection (Nick Sparks' "pound on the piano" speech is great to put this into perspective).
2) Being horrible with words. (Body language, tone, gestures, and facial expressions are what matter - NOT words!)
3) A weak mindset that I was a hopelessly lost cause and that I would always be stuck in the "friend zone". (After hooking up with many female friends I am a strong advocate that the friend zone does not exist)
4) The absolute worst enemy of progress: Over-analyzing everything!!!. (Also the most rewarding and freeing obstacle to overcome.)

If you're a human being and you're on this forum, I know you can relate to this post. I hope it brought you some clarity or at least got you thinking about what you can do in your own life.

Remember that your goal is achievable; because your belief shapes your reality - even right now.

Cheers,
Josh

P.S. Feel free to leave any comments or questions below

Good point. Refering to the title.