Hey chaps and chapettes,

A few words about me: 35 year old scientist, been in two long-ish term relationships (7 and 8 years), no kids (to my knowledge at least).

Reason to join the forum: Inability to seduce women in such a way that they don't fall in love with me.

In case anyone is, by any chance, willing to read further :

Firstly, I have no problem around ladies. I consider myself attractive and confident enough, so it's usually them who do most of the work (which is, I suspect, already the first reason that leads to my "problem"). I have a broad spectrum of social life, so there's plenty of girls to go about and I feel pretty good about the fact that sometimes I'm even able to make them compete for me.

So far so good. BUT! I'm a kind of romantic guy. I really enjoy in the romantic aspects of seduction (this might further contribute to the problem), which invariably leads to girls falling in love with me after (and before) we have sex. That's where the problems lies, as you no doubt have guessed. There really is only a few girls walking the Earth today who are not hating me to the bones for not getting into a serious engagement with them after we've had sex... And this I really don't like. I want girls to remember me in a good way - we've shared some of the most beautiful moments together. I want them to appreciate these moments that really happened instead of getting angry for all those that never followed...
Oh and one more thing: I never lie to them. Then again - I don't emphasize I'm in it only for an affair either.