Hi chaps,

Im 23, from London UK. I'm fairly new to this all. I've done a lot of reading, but it is a lot of information to try and absorb in a short time.

Basically, my natural game is quite good and here's why. Pretty much from being a small kid all the way to 19, I was always overweight, and unhappy with my physical appearance. I didnt think I had a chance with any of the girls I liked. But even if I did, I had absolutely no intention of escalating it because of the aforementioned insecurities. So, inadvertently... I became quite good at keeping girls at arms length and being fun and cheeky and such, which was easy for me to do because I wasn't even attempting to score (can you even believe the irony!?)

After 19, I grew to 6'3 and I trained stupidly hard over some time to get into great shape and even became a personal trainer (this will become relevant when I need some advice a little later)

Funny thing is, I feel comfortable in my own skin and my natural game is still there but now the difficulty comes in when I need to close, because it is something I've never tried to do before. So that's what I'm going to be focusing on.