What' sup guys? I've been working to improve my relation to women since i could remember But when it comes to the actual Pick Up Community I've been in it for about 5 years. Just now starting to get online. Never really saw the value in it be posting a ton on line. Would love to help some of you guys out while bringing some more realization and improvement tweaks to my own game.

Dommer

so whats your experience out there in the game?

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I got into the game to "get more women" but like most journey's I got other things out of it than what I'd expected. That being, more understanding about who I authentically am and what I really desire. Game is probably the best area to find self improvement and put those improvements to the test. The woman you most desire is often your best mirror...

When it comes to effectiveness. We all can go on for days. But to sum it up. I think 20% of game (knowledge based) is around understanding women and 80% of it is understanding your authentic relation to them. Which only comes out form really exploring your interactions with them, your possibilities, your flaws, your desires etc...

Some of the most critical things in my opinion:
~ Getting to a point of being able to read social energy well. This isn't only learned in seduction bur in all social interactions. Simply being able to read where someone's at emotionally (to a crisp point) without them having to tell you is huge. Knowing when a girl is a yes, a no, or on edge right where she should be in the moment with you.
~ A solid practice is way more important than solid material...
~ Presence and understanding of yourself.
~ Going out with the notion to have fun. Soo simple but when I started to leave the studying I did at home & just went out with 2 or 3 ideas in mind, with "have a blast" being number one things started to really improve fast.

Also I feel like guys miss the boat a lot when they start to get good at this stuff. Mastering attraction is amazing and I love to enjoy a lot of women. But, it's only the start. Learning to ravish and turn your pulled interactions into memories you'll never forget is game part 2 for me. He fucking you is only part 1. PS I'm not referring to monogamy I'm talking about true art with the women you have in your life. Often in an open relationship or relaxed context.

What about you?

Dommer