Alright guys? I'm 20 from the UK, a student and bored of being crap with girls. Wasn't reall sure what to write so i went for the narcotics annonymous style intro.

Why am I here? Ok I wouldn't say I'm terrible with women but I'm certainly not good. I have some problems with confidence, daygame is non-existent and nightgame is only a thing I do after too many beers- having said that I'm a fairly good conversationalist once I'm in one so when introduced by friends I pick up the odd girl and don't find getting a number too hard. What I have a problem with is approaching total strangers and translating promising interactions into more than a kiss in a nightclub smoking area.

I also came to a few conclusions about my life right now, after a short term thing with a girl fell apart, that a) I want to have fun more than I want stability and I need to make that more obvious to girls (the thing with the girl fell apart after I'd been making out with her in her house until like 3am then basically excused myself without even trying to get to the bedroom, for christ sake why would anyone do that?), b) I'm not going to be arrested for being a bit more forward, being super respectful and stand-offish hasn't got me anywhere and probably won't in the future, c) I need to get off the internet, I've been a lurker on this site for about a year which would be ok if I went out and used what I read on girls that my friends didn't just drop onto my lap, now that I've signed up hopefully people can pressure me into actually using what I've read.

Hopefully I can get past these problems and start getting some action in my final year of uni. Got a couple of girls numbers last night so lets try and put the theory into practice